I stopped running after every audition,
Or hoping for that big break.
I gave up my relentless quest for clients,
and allowed clients to come to me.
I quit writing long emails to people asking me for the secret formula to overnight success;
I relinquished my desire to have a constant social media presence;
I said “no” to most requests for interviews, guest posts, and twitter chats;
I even took a few weeks off from blogging, just because I felt like it.
I stayed away from most voice-over gatherings, online and offline;
I did not drool over the latest and greatest gear (well, just a little bit);
I gave myself permission to not be available all the time.
Instead of in the studio, I began most of my days in the gym, gaining strength, and losing weight.
I separated my personal from my professional life,
and decided that who I am, is more than what I do.
This year, I gave up the control
I never had in the first place,
and I replaced most of my “shoulds” and “musts”
with “I choose to,” and “I’m going for it.”
And you know what?
Things turned out pretty okay.
My business survived.
I feel less taxed, and more relaxed.
Here’s what I have learned:
Giving up is not so bad.
Sometimes the old has to go, in order to make room for the new.
The junk we leave in the attic, and the trinkets we hang on to in the basement,
It can all go. Really.
Life is lighter without it.
Many of us walk around with old stuff that isn’t necessarily our stuff.
It’s stuff other people left behind. Baggage.
Thoughts. Habits. Beliefs. Even objects.
Things that no longer serve a purpose.
It weighs us down.
And when all of it is gone, we can move on.
Because we have reclaimed a space in our lives that is waiting to be filled with excitement and anticipation.
Take it from me:
We sometimes need to lose part of who we were, in order to discover who we are.
There is much to gain from giving up.
Paul Strikwerda ©nethervoice
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About the author
is a Dutch-English voice-over pro, coach, and writer. His blog is one of the most widely read and influential blogs in the industry. Paul is also the author of "Making Money In Your PJs, Freelancing for voice-overs and other solopreneurs." goo.gl/ihVpMc